269/365 – people to thank who have had an impact on me. I have four brothers-in-law: two married to my sisters and two brothers of my wife. One of my sisters was married before me and I have known her husband/my brother-in-law Kam for just a few months shy of 30 years!! That’s a long time! British accent and soccer aficionado and big beer drinker, I didn’t really have anything in common back then except for my sister. We always had a brother-in-law relationship with each other rooted in civility – not much to converse about as we had a world of differences. The only time in 30 years that we ever had an argument sticks in my mind LOL – the four of us (me, wife, sister and Kam) decided to road trip to California (or was it Mexico??) from Vancouver. In a small car. With no air conditioning. In summer! Yes, if that is not a set-up to lose it with another person, I don’t know what is. And lose it we did. Basically not speaking for a couple of days probably because of some small insignificant thing that heated up literally and figuratively. I totally understand it in retrospect and the good thing is we were back to our civil ways before the end of the trip. I can’t say we have a friendship in the traditional respect of the word but we have respect for each other and mine comes from the fact that he takes great care of my mother’s needs. He is always there for her when she needs things fixed, picked up, arranged, organized whatever it may and he is my mom’s go-to guy as she has gotten so used to that she now neglects to ask me for assistance (which might be a good thing as I probably wouldn’t know what to do). He may complain in secret but has never said anything to me or my mom and just helps out with anything and for that, you have had a great impact on me as you are taking care of my mom more like a son than a son-in-law. Sadly we haven’t seen each other (due to an estrangement with my sister) except when we happened to be at the same soccer game and even then he asked how I was doing and told me to take care of myself – once again, cordiality at its best. Thanks Kam for being my first brother-in-law and being there for mom – always!